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I don't know how peole pick up on it, but I am uncomfortable in church around a lot of people. The guy I know is divorced after a talk on Temple marriages are forever. The guy I know that drinks coffee after a rousing speech on the WOW. The gal I know who just got a boob job after a rousing talk telling teenagers not to get tattoo's. The folks I know that are gay. The gal I had had a petting session with the night before. All of these folks I would be comfortable with on the golf course or at work, but not at church. |
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06-04-2008, 06:23 PM | #92 | |
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To claim otherwise is just plain dishonest.
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06-04-2008, 06:39 PM | #93 | |
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You can cite your anecdotes, and I can cite mine. People can be judgmental, no question, and not just about homosexuality. But I've found quite a bit of tolerance among most of the saints too. And I'll add this little zinger as well: sometimes people who come out as gay get hypersensitive to how they are being treated. Sometimes they see offense where either none existed, or none was intended. Heck, I've known people so paranoid about their divorce, or their job loss, or whatever, that they think the WHOLE ward is talking about, when in truth very few even know about it. Don't tell me that doesn't happen with people hypersensitive about their own sexual orientation. |
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06-04-2008, 06:41 PM | #97 | |
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in other words, it is not possible to be gay if you are a nice young man from a respectable family. |
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I know for a fact that there are wards in Utah where an openly gay (but not sexually active) homosexual is given empathy and support. To claim otherwise is just plain dishonest. |
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06-04-2008, 06:46 PM | #99 |
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and you think its gone down?
“Survey Finds 40 percent of Gay Men Have Had More Than 40 Sex Partners,” Lambda Report, January/February 1998, p. 20. A. P. Bell and M. S. Weinberg, Homosexualities: A Study of Diversity Among Men and Women (New York: Simon and Schuster, 1978), pp. 308, 9; see also Bell, Weinberg and Hammersmith, Sexual Preference (Bloomington: Indiana University Press, 1981). The following. for example, was published in Lambada: 24 percent of gay men had more than 100 partners. 43 percent of gay men had more than 500 partners. 28 percent of gay men had more than 1,000 partners. Risk of HIV/Aids is astronomical because of anal sex. That's how gay men have sex, in case you didn't know. It's a wonderful lifestyle, don't you agree? In their own words: Gareth Kirby, managing editor of the homosexual newspaper Xtra West, stated (Sept. 6, 2001) that legal marriages are contrary to the homosexual culture: …In our culture, we haven't created the same hierarchy as has heterosexual culture. We know that love has many faces, and names, ages, places. … We know that a 30-year relationship is no better, no better, than a nine-week, or nine-minute, fling – it's different, but not better. Both have value. We know that the instant intimacy involved in that perfect 20-minute …in Stanley Park can be a profoundly beautiful thing. We know a two-year relationship where people live apart is as beautiful, absolutely as beautiful, as a 30-year relationship where people live together. We know that the people involved in an open relationship can love each other as deeply as the people in a closed relationship … Last edited by exUte; 06-04-2008 at 06:49 PM. |
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EDIT: In other words, are you saying you've seen that the sexually active gays weren't given empathy and support in wards in Utah? How did the ward members know if they were sexually active or not? Last edited by scottie; 06-04-2008 at 06:50 PM. |
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