Ever have one of those moments where you IM the wrong thing?

[cougjunkie]

Originally Posted by MikeWaters

tongan?

Actually he is full Thai.

[MikeWaters]

Originally Posted by cougjunkie

Actually he is full Thai.

Wife is?

[TripletDaddy]

Originally Posted by marsupial

You are surprised that a husband would tell his wife that he is horny for her while they are apart?

I guess so.

Is that pretty common dialogue for you and danimal? Not being flip, just wondering if maybe I need to dial it up to 11 when I'm emailing my wife. We don't IM, so email and text will have to do for now.

Like I said before, if you go down that road, the expected response is likely something sexual, hence the reference to cyber sex. I made it clear that I didnt see why it would be wrong. My question was whether it was common in our culture.

Junkie shared a story of his friend telling him about f-ing his wife while on vacation, so I guess this kind of chat is not uncommon?

[creekster]

Originally Posted by TripletDaddy

I guess so.

Is that pretty common dialogue for you and danimal? Not being flip, just wondering if maybe I need to dial it up to 11 when I'm emailing my wife. We don't IM, so email and text will have to do for now.

Like I said before, if you go down that road, the expected response is likely something sexual, hence the reference to cyber sex. I made it clear that I didnt see why it would be wrong. My question was whether it was common in our culture.

Junkie shared a story of his friend telling him about f-ing his wife while on vacation, so I guess this kind of chat is not uncommon?

It is not common in my household, especially not sharing of this info with third parties. In fact, I would rather be SU's gospel doctrine instructor than share any of this sort of information with anyone here.

[marsupial]

Originally Posted by TripletDaddy

Junkie shared a story of his friend telling him about f-ing his wife while on vacation, so I guess this kind of chat is not uncommon?

Sharing intimate details of your love life with a friend is totally different than telling your spouse that you are horny.

[TripletDaddy]

Originally Posted by marsupial

Sharing intimate details of your love life with a friend is totally different than telling your spouse that you are horny.

You seem to be avoiding my question.

So, in essence, thanks for answering my question.

IM away.

[marsupial]

Originally Posted by TripletDaddy

question was whether it was common in our culture.

I have no clue if it is common in our culture. I don't typically kiss and tell. Perhaps this should be a poll question.

[TripletDaddy]

Originally Posted by marsupial

I have no clue if it is common in our culture. I don't typically kiss and tell. Perhaps this should be a poll question.

Your responses seem to be a form of kissing and telling....without directly telling.

Again, I have never said there was anything wrong with it. I am just wondering if this is more common than one would think.

I assumed that it would not be a common practice amongst LDS folk, however I have known to be wrong on many topics, so perhaps I am behind the count on this one.

I referenced Junkie's story not as a critique of Junkie or his friend, but to show how something that I would have assumed to NOT occur very much in our culture actually does seem to occur. Again, it seems like I am the one who is out of touch on this topic. Admittedly, Junkie's story may be an extreme example, while MRD's IM may be benign, harmless fun between spouses.

[YOhio]

Originally Posted by creekster

It is not common in my household, especially not sharing of this info with third parties. In fact, I would rather be SU's gospel doctrine instructor than share any of this sort of information with anyone here.

creekster is the anti-SoonerCoug.

[Mormon Red Death]

Originally Posted by TripletDaddy

MRD's IM may be benign, harmless fun between spouses.

this is exactly what it was... I am in AR and she is in MI...

As for IM sex... we dont do it because someone could be reading our messages or we could IM something with someone else in the room