An indictment of single LDS men

[Goatnapper'96]

Originally Posted by MikeWaters

I hope your advice didn't end up making her feel like a whore.

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OK it is time to admit it, I literally laughed out loud and that rarely happens to me.

[BYU71]

Originally Posted by Black Diamond Bay

I have some thoughts on this matter...that I do not think have already been expressed. Does anyone care though, or have we moved along to other things? I'm not going to waste my time and energy if this thread has lost everyone's interest.

I think the point of the thread you just proved. If women aren't treated like Princesses, they get ticked. Do you see any of the men posting worrying if they are about to waste their time and energy.

I am not beating up on you, it's your gender. You are too demanding. Men and women aren't equal! You don't have the Priesthood and contrary to what you are told, it isn't because women are so good they don't need it.

[Goatnapper'96]

Originally Posted by BYU71

I would still take her in a heartbeat. Great smile.

It appears that in addition to solving Man's need for more bounce for the ounce, it also appears that man has found a solution for sagitis. Such medical discoveries might put makers of brasierres out of business world wide it could also make National Geographic documentaries of sub-Saharan African tribes beyond my PG-13 limits........

[MikeWaters]

Originally Posted by Goatnapper'96

It appears that in addition to solving Man's need for more bounce for the ounce, it also appears that man has found a solution for sagitis. Such medical discoveries might put makers of brasierres out of business world wide it could also make National Geographic documentaries of sub-Saharan African tribes beyond my PG-13 limits........

I think she would look better with the grandma short-crop perm fro, myself.

[BYU71]

Originally Posted by Goatnapper'96

It appears that in addition to solving Man's need for more bounce for the ounce, it also appears that man has found a solution for sagitis. Such medical discoveries might put makers of brasierres out of business world wide it could also make National Geographic documentaries of sub-Saharan African tribes beyond my PG-13 limits........

I am not kidding. The girl I have told everyone about that I dated after each of her 3 divorces I will bet looks exactly like that right now. We dated from her age of 33 to the last time she was 46.

In order to keep the smile she had I swear she must have done smile muscle building exercises 8 hours a day although she claimed she didn't.

[Black Diamond Bay]

Originally Posted by MikeWaters

I am interested.

...why doesn't my director stay in his office? Surely he has something better to do with his time than hover over my desk...

Anyway, I moved to HB and I heard the same thing from girls out here that I heard at BYU. "We don't get asked out, the men have Halo parties with each other. The bishop has resorted to calling men and giving them a list of women that he wants them to take on a date..."

However, I met my now best friend (aka friend A) after I'd been in California for about a year. After hanging around her for about a week, and listening to her talk about who she had dated, I started to realize that she had been out with EVERYONE. Literally almost every guy out here had taken her out, and most of them more than once (incidentally the majority of the single women here hated her). I think that when I first met her she was dating three guys at one time. She's cute, really cute actually, but she'll be the first to admit that there are prettier girls out there that date far less.

I started asking her questions about it, and honestly, the woman is so ridiculously good at this stuff that it isn't even funny. She told me that if I wanted to learn how to date she'd teach me, but as far as holding together a relationship...I'm on my own. Literally the woman is an artist. Getting dates is an art, that's what I've decided. I'll never be as good as her, but there aren't very many girls I know that date more than I do.

So in my opinion the fault lies squarely on the shoulders of the sisters, and society and the feminists that want to turn us all into the she/he's.

[K-dog]

Originally Posted by Black Diamond Bay

...why doesn't my director stay in his office? Surely he has something better to do with his time than hover over my desk...

Anyway, I moved to HB and I heard the same thing from girls out here that I heard at BYU. "We don't get asked out, the men have Halo parties with each other. The bishop has resorted to calling men and giving them a list of women that he wants them to take on a date..."

However, I met my now best friend (aka friend A) after I'd been in California for about a year. After hanging around her for about a week, and listening to her talk about who she had dated, I started to realize that she had been out with EVERYONE. Literally almost every guy out here had taken her out, and most of them more than once (incidentally the majority of the single women here hated her). I think that when I first met her she was dating three guys at one time. She's cute, really cute actually, but she'll be the first to admit that there are prettier girls out there that date far less.

I started asking her questions about it, and honestly, the woman is so ridiculously good at this stuff that it isn't even funny. She told me that if I wanted to learn how to date she'd teach me, but as far as holding together a relationship...I'm on my own. Literally the woman is an artist. Getting dates is an art, that's what I've decided. I'll never be as good as her, but there aren't very many girls I know that date more than I do.

So in my opinion the fault lies squarely on the shoulders of the sisters, and society and the feminists that want to turn us all into the she/he's.

I think there is an art for both sides of the dating equation. Personally, my concern isn't dating, it is the castration of American men. Make them as womanly as possible and then they gather in groups and play games instead of going out and trying to find a girl to defile. Sure there is less sexual sin but at what cost?

[Archaea]

Originally Posted by Black Diamond Bay

...why doesn't my director stay in his office? Surely he has something better to do with his time than hover over my desk...

Anyway, I moved to HB and I heard the same thing from girls out here that I heard at BYU. "We don't get asked out, the men have Halo parties with each other. The bishop has resorted to calling men and giving them a list of women that he wants them to take on a date..."

However, I met my now best friend (aka friend A) after I'd been in California for about a year. After hanging around her for about a week, and listening to her talk about who she had dated, I started to realize that she had been out with EVERYONE. Literally almost every guy out here had taken her out, and most of them more than once (incidentally the majority of the single women here hated her). I think that when I first met her she was dating three guys at one time. She's cute, really cute actually, but she'll be the first to admit that there are prettier girls out there that date far less.

I started asking her questions about it, and honestly, the woman is so ridiculously good at this stuff that it isn't even funny. She told me that if I wanted to learn how to date she'd teach me, but as far as holding together a relationship...I'm on my own. Literally the woman is an artist. Getting dates is an art, that's what I've decided. I'll never be as good as her, but there aren't very many girls I know that date more than I do.

So in my opinion the fault lies squarely on the shoulders of the sisters, and society and the feminists that want to turn us all into the she/he's.

Agreed.

First thing is, you as a lady must want to date.

Second, you must act as if you like men, not hate them or hold them to be little boys subject to your rule.

Many women send out false signals.

In most cases, if a gal ain't dating, it's not the guy's fault. Heck I've had girls ask me for dates, knowing I'm married. So where there's a will there's a way.

[smokymountainrain]

Originally Posted by Black Diamond Bay

After hanging around her for about a week, and listening to her talk about who she had dated, I started to realize that she had been out with EVERYONE. Literally almost every guy out here had taken her out, and most of them more than once (incidentally the majority of the single women here hated her). I think that when I first met her she was dating three guys at one time. She's cute, really cute actually, but she'll be the first to admit that there are prettier girls out there that date far less.

I started asking her questions about it, and honestly, the woman is so ridiculously good at this stuff that it isn't even funny. She told me that if I wanted to learn how to date she'd teach me, but as far as holding together a relationship...I'm on my own. Literally the woman is an artist. Getting dates is an art, that's what I've decided. I'll never be as good as her, but there aren't very many girls I know that date more than I do.

I don't say this to brag, heck, I don't even know if it's something to be proud of, but the friend you describe sounds like my wife when she was single.

The sentence that caught my eye was the following..."the woman is so ridiculously good at this stuff that it isn't even funny"

Honestly, I don't believe it can be taught. It's as simple as having the combination of good looks and a personality conducive to getting dates. What I mean by that is this: Not only did my wife have the requisite looks (you mention prettier girls who don't date as much as your friend), but she made every guy she talked to think they were the best looking, funniest, most interesting guy in town. She was very approachable, easy to talk to and extremely friendly. Again, I'm not sure any of that can be taught. It's a personality trait and a rare one at that.

The downside of that was that she had to break the hearts of numerous guys who thought they had something with her (because of the way she made them feel) and it wasn't fun for her.

[Black Diamond Bay]

Originally Posted by Archaea

Agreed.

First thing is, you as a lady must want to date.

Second, you must act as if you like men, not hate them or hold them to be little boys subject to your rule.

Many women send out false signals.

In most cases, if a gal ain't dating, it's not the guy's fault. Heck I've had girls ask me for dates, knowing I'm married. So where there's a will there's a way.

I don't ask men out.

My friend says that women don't pursue, we present men with an opportunity to pursue. If it comes down to it, and we're pretty well convinced the guy is interested, but isn't asking, then we're allowed one opportunity to invite them with us to a ticketed event. If they can't pick up the pace and start asking after that they're either not interested after all, or too feminine and we don't want those men anyway.