10-10-2007, 06:17 AM | #111 | |
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My young son is at home with his mother, and while that is good in many ways there are some losses as well. Maybe our experience is not statistically significant, but you'll never convince me that high quality care by another for your child is per se detrimental, nor do I believe that day care delivered by a mother (or any other parent) is per se more developmentally appropriate or enjoyable for a child. |
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10-10-2007, 06:26 AM | #112 | |
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If you had spent the day with my sick son, you probably would have instantly converted to homosexuality. Your testicles would have shriveled up like tiny raisons and then gone to hide behind your kidneys just so you would never even think about breeding again. However, I love the little despot and he's getting more pleasant with every month that goes by. People that don't spend a lot of time with their kids try to make their conscience feel better by saying they spend "quality" time with their kids. "Junior may be in daycare from 6:30 am until 7 pm, but the 15 minutes I spend reading a bedtime story to him sure is quality." I got news for you, I spend quantity time with my kids, quality time and a whole boatload of non-quality time. I piss quality and fart excellence! |
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10-10-2007, 06:29 AM | #113 | |
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Are you trying to make a point or something? |
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10-10-2007, 06:36 AM | #114 | |
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10-10-2007, 06:36 AM | #115 | |
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10-10-2007, 06:37 AM | #116 |
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Ratio of 10:1 is a gross violation of state law where I come from. How many kids does your wife watch at once, sport? You don't practice birth control do you?
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10-10-2007, 06:44 AM | #117 | |
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I've got two children. I would have liked a bigger family but you play the cards you're dealt. Last edited by Burning Bright; 10-10-2007 at 07:11 AM. |
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10-10-2007, 07:01 AM | #118 | |
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We do have dvd players so we can control and monitor what comes into our house. There are good shows and dvds and this way we can pick and choose. My 14 month old doesn't watch dvds. My five year old probably averages an hour a day. If your point is that daycare is better than parking your kid in front of the TV all day, I'd probably agree with you. But that's like saying herpes is better than AIDS. They both suck. However, if you're a good parent, you raise your own kids and either eleminate or strictly control tv/dvds. I never said all time spent with kids is of equal value. I'm just saying that if you spend any amount of time with your kids, you're gonna spend lots of quality and non-quality time with your kids. If someone says they only spend quality time with their kids, they must not be around them very much. As far as amount of time you spend with your kids, unless you work from home or are disabled with no job and just hang out at home, there's no way you spend more time with your kids than I do. Unless you meet one of those criteria (or something very similar), it's just not physically possible. If you do meet one of those criteria, then why are you messing around with daycare? Assuming your spouse hasn't died or nothing tragic has happened. Last edited by Burning Bright; 10-10-2007 at 07:04 AM. |
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10-10-2007, 01:47 PM | #119 |
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I wish the two of you would take this little spat to boardmail so the rest of us wouldn't have to skim this pile of self-congratulatory hoo-ha. There is no magic bullet in parenting. The more you do it the more you realize how little you know about it. If all you have done so far is spend 5 years with two kids, then I find your certainty in prescription laughable. I guarantee that 20 years from now you will have softened your views, at least as far as telling everyone else how to do it. THis goes for both of you.
Clearly you are both Very Special Parents. Congratulations.
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