11-11-2008, 11:26 PM | #1 |
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The crux of the gay marriage issue is immutabilitiy or not
I challenge anti-gay marriage folks like Tex and LA Ute to convince me that being gay is a choice. If it is, I grant you your gay marriage ban. On the other hand, gay marriage proponents must make immutability the crux of their case. This is where their moral authority derives. Being gay is not a choice.
I don't believe it's a choice, and the reason is simple. It is two fold: First, Why would someone choose to be gay? Why would someone choose to be hated by at least half the world, indcluding their own families and churches, and a life of rejection and isolation? Second, I didn't choose to be heterosexual. Based on my persona experience I can't fathom sexual perference being a choice (even for bisexuals it's not a choice). You anti-gay marriage folks, show me I'm wrong. My mind is open. P.S., I'm not interested in arguments that immutability is not the issue. The way I see it, people who argue this way are just conceding my second point but still looking for a rationalization for discriminating against gays.
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Based on the unbiased way you have presented this challenge, and your already expressed aversion to anything outside the parameters with which you have personally set, I expect there to be a slew of serious responses to your question.
Good luck!
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I'm looking for a compelling reason to alter the definition of marriage as Western Civilization has defined it for millenia.
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Would you have asked Joseph and Brigham the same question?
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Immutability is not the issue, at least not the sole one, nor is the presence of a "gay" gene. For one, there are examples of people who have "switched teams", so it's not 100% immutable. For another, no matter how you slice it, even if one is gay, whether they have gay sex or marry is really up to them. An alcoholic may be predisposed to drink, but that doesn't require us to ignore the consequences that may result.
I'm playing devil's advocate here as I suspect we agree on Prop 8. I also agree that in the vast majority of cases, being gay was not a choice. I can't imagine going through a life without being able to express my sexuality. However, these arguments are going to ring rather hollow with a group of people who revere Sherri Dew. The two reasons behind my opposition to Prop 8 are: 1) The awarding of benefits in society is a secular not a moral issue. Religious arguments (and organizations) have no place in this debate. 2) From a secular point of view, gay couples in committed relationships benefit society more than gay couples in uncommitted relationships. Nothing to do with immutability. |
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