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jay santos · 11-12-2008, 07:18 PM

The comparison is offensive. But the principle behind the offensive is important.

The bottom line is there are a lot of things the natural man wants that it can't have. I'm not sure very many people in the world are completely sexually satisfied a majority of the time. It seems to be something God wants us to experience and learn from. In light of that, the task the homosexual has in life is a heavy cross to bear but not inordinately special. It's a cross we all bear to some extent.

The_Tick · 11-12-2008, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by jay santos

The comparison is offensive. But the principle behind the offensive is important.

The bottom line is there are a lot of things the natural man wants that it can't have. I'm not sure very many people in the world are completely sexually satisfied a majority of the time. It seems to be something God wants us to experience and learn from. In light of that, the task the homosexual has in life is a heavy cross to bear but not inordinately special. It's a cross we all bear to some extent.

I am not comparing. Drawing a parallel.

Using one to draw out a discussion about the other.

marsupial · 11-12-2008, 08:41 PM

OK. Since you say you are not trolling, I will say that it is more than just consent. It is also a pedophile's inability (or lack of desire) to have an meaningful relationship with an adult partner. A pedophile's relationship with a child is selfish domination, not mutual satisfaction.

The_Tick · 11-12-2008, 09:04 PM

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OK. Since you say you are not trolling, I will say that it is more than just consent. It is also a pedophile's inability (or lack of desire) to have an meaningful relationship with an adult partner. A pedophile's relationship with a child is selfish domination, not mutual satisfaction.

I agree with that. I believe it tends to have something to do with abuse as a child myself. Someone that is domineered wants to dominate.

I tried getting with the county to do some research for my speech back in 05 but they weren't any help.

Archaea · 11-12-2008, 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by marsupial

OK. Since you say you are not trolling, I will say that it is more than just consent. It is also a pedophile's inability (or lack of desire) to have an meaningful relationship with an adult partner. A pedophile's relationship with a child is selfish domination, not mutual satisfaction.

Sounds like you've given this more thought than I.

We did have one pedophile in our ward. Here's how it worked.

He apparently had been convicted/plea bargained and excommunicated as a member in Utah. He had a child I believe and moved to our state as an excommunicated member. He claimed he had worked for the CIA in Panama and had to execute prisoners after interrogation, this was an object lesson of priesthood which he was allowed to teach.

So he goes on the LDSsingles, finds a girl, borrows money from ward members, convinces this girl to marry him, despite people pleading with her to avoid him. They go to Mexico to honeymoon, return home for a scuffle at one member's house during the open house. Later, a few weeks later, he's arrested for molesting her daughter, in jail with marriage annulled. This apparently was his third or fourth marriage. Obviously, something was wrong with the dude, and he sits in Utah State Prison where he may rot.

I have no idea what makes those guys tick. He was able to procreate yet despite its misuse continued in a harmful and malicious way. Still can't figure it out to this day.

BlueHair · 11-13-2008, 02:24 AM

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I'm not sure very many people in the world are completely sexually satisfied a majority of the time.

My wife is one of the few.

BarbaraGordon · 11-13-2008, 02:50 AM

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My wife is one of the few.

I heard her boyfriend's pretty proud of that fact, too.

BlueHair · 11-13-2008, 03:20 AM

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I heard her boyfriend's pretty proud of that fact, too.

He is. I let her indulge in her midget fetish every once in a while.

BarbaraGordon · 11-13-2008, 03:36 AM

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He is. I let her indulge in her midget fetish every once in a while.

What in the world could possibly be satisfying about a midget?? Wait--don't tell me--I don't want to know.

BlueHair · 11-13-2008, 03:42 AM

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What in the world could possibly be satisfying about a midget?? Wait--don't tell me--I don't want to know.

Maybe she gets tired of a full size man, if you catch my drift.

11-12-2008, 08:41 PM	#3
marsupial Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: M-I-S-S-I-S-S-I-P-P-I... Isn't it so fun to spell? Posts: 1,701	OK. Since you say you are not trolling, I will say that it is more than just consent. It is also a pedophile's inability (or lack of desire) to have an meaningful relationship with an adult partner. A pedophile's relationship with a child is selfish domination, not mutual satisfaction. __________________ "Mormon men are inherently sexy..." -Archaea

11-12-2008, 07:18 PM	#1
jay santos Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 6,177	The comparison is offensive. But the principle behind the offensive is important. The bottom line is there are a lot of things the natural man wants that it can't have. I'm not sure very many people in the world are completely sexually satisfied a majority of the time. It seems to be something God wants us to experience and learn from. In light of that, the task the homosexual has in life is a heavy cross to bear but not inordinately special. It's a cross we all bear to some extent.