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Rickomatic · 01-06-2006, 06:48 PM

I must asy that I can only say what I said becasue this is the internet and no one knows who I am for sure on this board.

InTheMuss · 01-06-2006, 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by pedrotea

fus... I have to agree with Rick and Hippie both on this one. Sex is not what will make a lasting relationship. You bet it helps, but like has already been said you have to be good friends. no matter how great the sex is, there is a lot more to a marriage and life. And like has been pointed out in the inactivity thread, trials will come and having a true friend by your side to go through them with will be priceless.

Now don't get me wrong the sex part is great and I have no complaints about my situation and I have been married for ten yrs and the fire still burns!

Dude, I think some penicillin will clear that right up.

Archaea · 01-06-2006, 07:10 PM

A prevarication:

Some women are never very horny, but I've never discussed with any guy over 30 or 35, and especially not 40 or 50, where women get hornier.

After about 45 -50, almost all have almost ZERO interest. It's why old guys go after young chicks.

A guy can have sex breakfast, lunch and dinner and much of the night. A gal often requires doing all the housework, picking up the kids, some flowers, doing the honeydos and if, nothing pissed her off before the moment, then maybe she will be interested. This applies mostly for older gals. But basically, they're tired and a tired lady doesn't think of sex.

Not true for guys. We can be dying of the worst disease, worn out through having been deprived of food and water, beaten down, and after we arise from our comas, we think of sex.

Older people get tired, and a tired lady won't think of it. So gals just don't get hornier, at least, not your average Molly Mormon, take care of lots of kids, the RS and school type of mom. I can't speak for Porn Stars, never dated one and never will.

So Mike, in reality, what you've got now, is the best it will ever get and it will go downhill, inevitably from where you are now. So please as much as you can, enjoy it now, collect memories for later, cuz you will only have memories after about 50 and 55. I imagine the sixties, seventies and eighties are completely dreadful, cuz from what I've seen. Let's hope there's a cure for our male labidos that can be easily injested. I hear salt peter works.

Instead of getting horned up, women get spendier as they age.

non sequitur · 01-06-2006, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by MikeWaters

I've got a question for you guys that are a little older than me...

Is the notion that women get hornier after 30 true or not in your experience?

They do get hornier, but it's usually just when they see some 20 year-old pretty boy at the gym.

tooblue · 01-06-2006, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by non sequitur

Quote:

Originally Posted by MikeWaters

I've got a question for you guys that are a little older than me...

Is the notion that women get hornier after 30 true or not in your experience?

They do get hornier, but it's usually just when they see some 20 year-old pretty boy at the gym.

Yes is too simple an answer ... Rather I'd say they tend to enjoy it more 8)

RockyBalboa · 01-06-2006, 11:26 PM

Mike...to answer your question about women getting hornier after 30 true....well being a 30+ single LDS guy, it's been my experience that this is true.

The women I date who are ove 30, compared to those who aren't,,,well the difference is pretty stark.

Either one will be willing to make out, but the older ones usually have little qualms about taking things further.

It's pretty scary how many LDS 30+ singles I go out with who aren't temple recommend holders.

For men it's even worse.

DirtyHippieUTE · 01-06-2006, 11:48 PM

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Originally Posted by RockyBalboa

The women I date who are ove 30, compared to those who aren't,,,well the difference is pretty stark.

Either one will be willing to make out, but the older ones usually have little qualms about taking things further.

It's pretty scary how many LDS 30+ singles I go out with who aren't temple recommend holders.

I lived in that world and experienced the same thing. However, I believe it has more to do with a desire to be in a relationship (emotional, physical, etc...) than a pure sexual desire. I found that many of the "older" girls I dated were far more physical. I used to just think they were horny but then a psychology friend explained to me that it is a combination of several far more complex issues with 30+ single mormon girls.

I don't think you can compare single and married women over 30 in this case.

Archaea · 01-06-2006, 11:56 PM

yeah somebody trying to catch a mate is much different than somebody who has one locked up.

Most women know their man isn't going anywhere soon, so unless they get caught with the football team in color, he's not going anywhere.

Don't compare unmarried with married with six kids.

bluegoose · 01-07-2006, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by non sequitur

Quote:

Originally Posted by MikeWaters

I've got a question for you guys that are a little older than me...

Is the notion that women get hornier after 30 true or not in your experience?

They do get hornier, but it's usually just when they see some 20 year-old pretty boy at the gym.

I thought that's what Brad Pitt and Matthew McConehay movies were for. Do you think that I enjoyed watching Joe Black? No, but I did. I guess thats the price you pay for love.

Mrs Alkili · 01-10-2006, 12:04 AM

[quote="fusnik11"] is sex not the second major reason behind divorce? quote]

No, but selfishness is. people blame their divorces on money and sex and Irreconcilable differences, but they can all mean one thing. You're selfish. as far as i understand, there are very few circumstances where a church leader would recommend divorce.

if what you are most worried about in picking a spouse is your own sexual gratification, then maybe you should save some poor girl from marrying you and never meeting up to your expectations.

01-06-2006, 06:48 PM	#31
Rickomatic Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: West Jordan UT Posts: 319	I must asy that I can only say what I said becasue this is the internet and no one knows who I am for sure on this board. __________________ "Always do right. This will gratify some people and astonish the rest." Mark Twain

01-06-2006, 07:10 PM	#33
Archaea Assistant to the Regional Manager Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: The Orgasmatron Posts: 24,338	A prevarication: Some women are never very horny, but I've never discussed with any guy over 30 or 35, and especially not 40 or 50, where women get hornier. After about 45 -50, almost all have almost ZERO interest. It's why old guys go after young chicks. A guy can have sex breakfast, lunch and dinner and much of the night. A gal often requires doing all the housework, picking up the kids, some flowers, doing the honeydos and if, nothing pissed her off before the moment, then maybe she will be interested. This applies mostly for older gals. But basically, they're tired and a tired lady doesn't think of sex. Not true for guys. We can be dying of the worst disease, worn out through having been deprived of food and water, beaten down, and after we arise from our comas, we think of sex. Older people get tired, and a tired lady won't think of it. So gals just don't get hornier, at least, not your average Molly Mormon, take care of lots of kids, the RS and school type of mom. I can't speak for Porn Stars, never dated one and never will. So Mike, in reality, what you've got now, is the best it will ever get and it will go downhill, inevitably from where you are now. So please as much as you can, enjoy it now, collect memories for later, cuz you will only have memories after about 50 and 55. I imagine the sixties, seventies and eighties are completely dreadful, cuz from what I've seen. Let's hope there's a cure for our male labidos that can be easily injested. I hear salt peter works. Instead of getting horned up, women get spendier as they age. __________________ Ἓν οἶδα ὅτι οὐδὲν οἶδα

01-06-2006, 11:56 PM	#38
Archaea Assistant to the Regional Manager Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: The Orgasmatron Posts: 24,338	yeah somebody trying to catch a mate is much different than somebody who has one locked up. Most women know their man isn't going anywhere soon, so unless they get caught with the football team in color, he's not going anywhere. Don't compare unmarried with married with six kids. __________________ Ἓν οἶδα ὅτι οὐδὲν οἶδα

01-06-2006, 11:26 PM	#36
RockyBalboa Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Salt Lake City Posts: 7,297	Mike...to answer your question about women getting hornier after 30 true....well being a 30+ single LDS guy, it's been my experience that this is true. The women I date who are ove 30, compared to those who aren't,,,well the difference is pretty stark. Either one will be willing to make out, but the older ones usually have little qualms about taking things further. It's pretty scary how many LDS 30+ singles I go out with who aren't temple recommend holders. For men it's even worse.

01-10-2006, 12:04 AM	#40
Mrs Alkili Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 2	[quote="fusnik11"] is sex not the second major reason behind divorce? quote] No, but selfishness is. people blame their divorces on money and sex and Irreconcilable differences, but they can all mean one thing. You're selfish. as far as i understand, there are very few circumstances where a church leader would recommend divorce. if what you are most worried about in picking a spouse is your own sexual gratification, then maybe you should save some poor girl from marrying you and never meeting up to your expectations.