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"There are millions of happy, well-adjusted adults who went to day care. There are lots of emotionally beat up adults who had a depressed stay-at-home parent." You sound like a liberal arguing for same-sex couples' right to adopt kids. The ones that say, well there's plenty of kids raised by a mom and a dad that have horrible lives, so why shouldn't gays get to raise kids? Surely they wouldn't do any worse? Give me a break. I don't win anything. YOUR burden of proof is to prove that there are some people that under NO circumstances could ever be content, and have a satisfied life being the stay at home parent. I argue that ANYONE with the proper perspective, spiritual guidance, living the gospel, and support from their spouse can live a happy life staying at home to raise THEIR kids, and not outsource the raising of THEIR kids to someone else. |
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1. LMAO. Everyone that needs to be brought into this world will be, regardless of how many selfish couples decide not to have kids. 2. I NEVER said it's impossible for good kids to be raised in a family of two working parents. However, let's set the record straight. The parents aren't the ones that will be raising the kids, as you suggest. The primary care giver and "raiser" will be whoever is with the kids while the parents are at work. 3. Because this type of couple wants to have their cake and eat it too. Having kids is serious business. It's not just a hobby you do on the weekends, while someone else does the serious lifting during the daytime, while you are at work climbing the corporate ladder. |
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So tell me Levin, are you and your wife both working with kids, or do you come from a family of working parents?
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This is complete BS, and just means the person is too SELFISH to put their career aside, even for just a few years until the kids are in school. One of the most fundamental purposes of our freaking existence on earth is to raise children in the gospel. No person with this priority straight in their head is going to go psycho because they stay at home with their kids for a few years. |
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Anyways, your too binary. See the gray. Some people who wish to work and be parents are not SELFISH (is it better when we put it in caps?). See the great diversity of people and situations. |
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