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He is not there to offer forgiveness. He simply judges membership. Now, he may assist the person in obtaining forgiveness by helping them understand relevant church doctrine, particularly the atonement, but ultimately forgiveness comes from one source and one source only. A good bishop recognizes the distinction. Thus, if someone hides a sin for fear of the consequences, he doesn't really understand the atonement or the purpose of church discipline. And if the membership is myopic enough to believe that its leaders are perfect men, or ought to be, they too do not understand the atonement. Neither of these is the church's fault (at least, not inasmuch as it has sought to teach these principles).
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I also must make this statement. I recall Creekster chiming in on SIEQ's thread about keeping his kids out of ym/yw classes on doin' da nasty because he fears it could do more damage than good and he only wants his kids taught about doin' da nasty from him or SIRS, an Creekster's comment was he never once saw these types of egregious teachings that were referenced once in all his years in the Church. I think I am like him here. I have never seen these miserable events transpire as a consequence of confession. My personal experience also is that confession brought peace. So I felt I "thrived" moreso when I confessed even if it ensured that I would never ascend up the priesthood hierarchy.
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A better understanding of the atonement by all parties would resolve much the problems you're talking about. Do you disagree?
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I honestly don't want you to endure the misery of hashing it out. My point was never to pour salt in your wounds, just highlighting that if the issue was seared upon such a bad experience it probably clouds your opinion of the subject.
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Eventually I realized that a part of the problem was my own attitude toward suffering, and an overly sympathetic view of my own difficulties. I was putting a premium on what was outwardly visible (the esteem of others) at the expense of understanding that the true fruits of positive behavior were internal. That realization was a big one for me. I think this issue is probably a problem, and probably one that cannot be sorted out without using faith that God can somehow help sort it out. In the meantime I will continue to think of my leaders as "quiet baters." |
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When I went through my divorce, I had a very positive experience with my bishop. I called him and told him I needed to talk to him, and he said: "We'll set you apart as primary pianist after we talk." I said: "You might change your mind after we talk." After we talked (I was bawling uncontrollably), he said: "I don't see any reason not to set you apart." That was very comforting to me, even though it wasn't really a confession situation. And I felt like it was very Christ-like. I completely agree that confession can be a wonderful thing. It can also be a terrible experience. Sure, there are imperfect leaders. Discipline is often completely arbitrary, as to how things are handled, etc. I'm sort of OK with that. I don't dislike the Church because of it. At the same time, I think it's a system fraught with imperfection, and I refuse to simplify the discussion by claiming that all imperfections are unavoidable consequences of human error. There is always room for improvement. |
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The church is constantly revising policy and restructuring programs. They don't do it willy-nilly, but they DO do it. I didn't mean to convey the idea that the system is without flaw, only that it is a divine organization based on true principles and that a better understanding of those principles helps one smooth out the flaws.
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