02-27-2008, 09:21 PM | #41 |
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That's a great photo.
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02-27-2008, 09:22 PM | #42 |
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I think it's pretty normal to think that. Especially if it's a constant pattern. I think you're guilty of this as well, but just maybe not in the context of the church, but in other things. For example..I bet at sometime if you've heard a co-worker constantly complaining about a job they struggle with, or a person in a relationship they struggle with..........unless you're some kind of perfect deity, you've probably thought to yourself......"Why in the world is this person sticking around for hells sakes?" In fact I think everyone on here is guilty of that. So like I said....you can use the church as the background for your frustration, but I'm telling you it's actually pretty normal. Doesn't mean it's helpful, but it's normal.
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02-27-2008, 09:32 PM | #45 |
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Yes, you're right, I wonder why Tex hangs out so much on this website. Maybe he can explain why.
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If you don't like your job, I am fine telling you to quit. If you gripe about the church, I don't see how it is helpful for me to tell you to leave. We should resist what is "normal" in that sense. Maybe the person will come to the conclusion that the church isn't for them anyways. If so, fine. But why push them out the door? |
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And don't think I don't love the fact that my post for greater tolerance has led Tex to assert that I am too closed-minded. Ah the irony. |
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If you took it as anything other, you need to re-evaluate yourself. Or, just ask me. I'm always happy to clarify, even for you. As Michael would say, "I'm startin' with the man in the mirror ..."
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