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She has the choice to disobey advice/commandment (depending on your interpretation) which will not likely end in formal disfellowship or excommunication, but could lead to other forms of disapproval and ostracization.
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Are divorced moms single moms?
If a woman is pregnant, and during presidency the husband and wife get divorced? (of course I know that this is like saying what if aliens came down, because it can never happen in real life). |
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Indy: I don't disagree with the statistics. In most cases, children are better off with a mother and a father. But I think Mike is highlighting the problem that comes with making a hard and fast rule based on statistical probabilities.
Would you agree that the general practice in the church is to counsel unwed pregnant mothers who are not in a position to marry the child's father to give the child up for adoption? If so, then I think that's strict enough of a rule to fit Mike's definition. The problem is, when an individual is faced with a decision of what to do, the statistics don't predestine one result over the other. I agree with Mike that perhaps there needs to be less strict of an application of the principle of unwed mother adoption and more emphasis on personal revelation in the matter. If everyone is encouraging one path over another, are they really saying she has a choice?
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The wording of this is obviously intended to address young expectant mothers that have never been married. |
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It would come from violating the law of chastity which is an entirely different topic.
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I'm trying to figure out who this applies to. What ages are young? At what age does the advice no longer apply? Those statistics are worthless if they are national statistics. You know that as well as I. The outcomes for a middle class white Mormon teenage girl who keeps her kid are not going to be the same as the average unwed mother. |
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The likely outcome isn't going to be the same for a 30 year old divorcee as they are for a 17 year old pre-HS graduate.
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