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RockyBalboa · 05-10-2006, 02:23 AM

Actually I think hand holding before kissing is bass-ackwards, but that's one man's opinion.

I'll kiss/NCMO a girl any day of the week before I hold her hand. However,,,as weird as this might sound there are different levels of hand holding.

For example: You're cuddling on a couch, just chilling watching a movie and she just kind of strokes your hand and gently puts her palm in yours or something to that effect. To me that's just physical need hand holding/touching/affection.

Then there's the "We're starting to get a little closer/I'm taking a chance while we're on a walk and grabbing her hand" Hand holding. That's the attempt at romantic/letting her know you're in charge hand holding and really enjoy her company hand holding. That kind of hand holding is the kind that would get her or him thinking....."Okay,,what is this person's intentions?" Cause when that kind of hand holding takes place there's either a huge sense of nervousness or complete comfort. There's really no in-between.

Okay, I can't believe I just said all that crap.

Maybe that sounds a little whacked. lol

05-10-2006, 02:23 AM	#31
RockyBalboa Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Salt Lake City Posts: 7,297	Actually I think hand holding before kissing is bass-ackwards, but that's one man's opinion. I'll kiss/NCMO a girl any day of the week before I hold her hand. However,,,as weird as this might sound there are different levels of hand holding. For example: You're cuddling on a couch, just chilling watching a movie and she just kind of strokes your hand and gently puts her palm in yours or something to that effect. To me that's just physical need hand holding/touching/affection. Then there's the "We're starting to get a little closer/I'm taking a chance while we're on a walk and grabbing her hand" Hand holding. That's the attempt at romantic/letting her know you're in charge hand holding and really enjoy her company hand holding. That kind of hand holding is the kind that would get her or him thinking....."Okay,,what is this person's intentions?" Cause when that kind of hand holding takes place there's either a huge sense of nervousness or complete comfort. There's really no in-between. Okay, I can't believe I just said all that crap. Maybe that sounds a little whacked. lol __________________ Masquerading as Cougarguards very own genius dumbass since 05'.