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Sure you can. And so can I.
I am talking about the majority, not the anecdotes.
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There are enough people at BYU with a wide enough range of thinking that one person cannot possibly represent the views and opinions of all. I have little doubt but that there are many on either side of the issue, but I suspect that the general sentiment, though innovative by comparison to the BYU of just a few years ago, is on the side of "family first."
That's not to say that the inverse is not an important factor. There's a girl I'm interested in that very much fits the description. She is extremely qualified, landed a pretty high-profile internship in Washington, DC over the summer, and impressed enough people with her work over there to open several doors to some very enticing opportunities. Getting attached to a guy in Provo would severely disrupt those opportunities. I suspect that the question of whether the two different aspects of life can be reconciled will have a lot to do with the question of whether anything happens with this one.
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Have you ever heard someone speaking in Stake Conference encouraging Young Women to pursue a professional career? |
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The message here is "we value you, we want you to be educated, but please do not pursue careers. your education is a fallback which hopefully you will never have to use."
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There are plenty of statements and other things that would indicate the official stance though is a guideline. Many like to pull out what President Benson said and make it much more than a guideline. This all goes back to getting revelation for ourselves which some in the church don't like. They like being told what to do. |
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