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I wouldn't say the two sets of dads I'm aware of are damaged, but since I'd favor a heterosexual couple over a gay couple, I guess I see where you'd reach that conclusion. Do you believe a baby would be just as well off with a gay couple as with a straight one (again, assuming all other factors are equal)? I'm open to the argument, but as I have no scientific evidence to support my position, I'm going with my gut here.
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Where you see "hate" of gays, what I mostly see is the incredibly powerful taboo in our culture and faith against sexual sin. I don't think most LDS would be anxious to see children go to a home where other sexual sins, such as adultery, were not only happening but were going to be taught as the norm. I don't actually think that is the ideal situation for a child either, but I do think and have said many times before that no child should be denied the opportunity to be raised by people who want and love it (as opposed to the state or foster care) unless they are going to be abused somehow. I can see where some LDS could see raising a child to believe homosexuality is normal as being abusive, but I stop well short of there.
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Ever heard of a home study?
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I don't think they ask the question point blank, but they are quite ... thorough, for lack of a better word. Trust me, the status and stability of the marital relationship is of paramount importance.
Here's a sample of one questionnaire: http://holdingpattern.typepad.com/in...mestudy_q.html
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I have to think that a couple, any couple, would be asked how their relationship is. That is, do you fight, is there ever violence, etc. I assume that if someone were to say, well we have an open relationship where we have multiple and changing sexual partners coming in and out of the house and believe, and would teach our adopted children, that this is one of many alternative lifestyles available to them, it would raise a red flag. That is the analogy, I think, because that would be a situation where adultery was being openly practiced and taught as normal.
I would have grave concerns about a child being put in a home where that was the case unless there were not other options available. To answer your question whether they ask that directly, I have no clue. But I would be surprised to learn that any couple is not asked directly and fairly in depth about the health of their own relationship.
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I don't know if should be surprised or not that your "speed reading" didn't catch that.
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