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Divorce as soon as possible | 8 | 22.22% | |
Forgive and forget once, but divorce if it happened a second time | 19 | 52.78% | |
Forgive and forget multiple times as long as he/she still loves me and wants to be with me | 2 | 5.56% | |
Ask him/her to they want to start swinging | 7 | 19.44% | |
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07-07-2007, 11:38 AM | #21 | |
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07-09-2007, 01:05 AM | #22 | |
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Here's my addendum: If Jason cheated, I would be devastated, but I'd also want to examine myself and our relationship to see what might have led him to look outside of the marriage for happiness. Perhaps I could find ways to improve the marriage. I would think counseling would be in order. Now, to answer the later question, if he cheated with a guy, well that's just beyond my comprehension. On the other hand, if I cheated with a girl, I'm pretty sure he'd try to contain his glee while asking if we should invite her over for dinner and cocktails. |
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07-09-2007, 02:04 AM | #23 | |
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07-09-2007, 02:08 AM | #24 | |
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07-09-2007, 06:29 AM | #25 | |
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07-09-2007, 06:30 AM | #26 | |
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Unfortunately, most women who cheat with women are genuinely homosexual, so this would generally lead to the conclusion of a marriage, in my opinion. Some (all?) men just like the concept of heterosexual women who temporarily pretend to be homosexual or "bisexual." I wonder why the reverse isn't true.
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07-09-2007, 11:16 AM | #27 |
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i dont think women or men would mind if thier spouses just temporarily PRETEND ...the problem is begun when they want to take the plan into ACTION.
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07-09-2007, 07:47 PM | #30 | |
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However, most of the men in the study who considered themselves to be "bisexual" were actually turned on only by men. There were no actual bisexual men.
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