I already posted this on the board, but I kind of wanted

[Black Diamond Bay]

Originally Posted by mpfunk

Based on what you are saying this appears to be the case. If you would like to give more information to rebut this notion that would be fine. However, what I see is someone who is blaming struggles on what her husband did in the past. A think a person who is truly forgiving would forget what happened in the past, and wouldn't use it as a basis for why their are current problems (assuming the past transgression was taken care of).

I do enjoy one thing about your post. You say it shows a lot about my character for making a judgment of a little snippet of information on someone I don't know and haven't met, than you go ahead and make a judgment on my character based on the little bit of information that you know about me, a person you don't know and haven't met.

...and what judgment was that?

I'm still entirely uncertain why her husband has anything to do with this. The individual in question that started the conversation in the first place is a man that she met and dated several years ago, and now he's asking me out. There's been nothing in any of the comments she's made that would lead me to believe that she hasn't forgiven her husband, and doesn't consider him to be someone who keeps his covenants. However, she has reservations about the man in question.