(2) Activity of your spouse

[SeattleUte]

Would you acquiesce if your spouse started spending 3-4 hours every Sunday at a Church in which you did not believe, taking your kids there for indoctrination or (if you have young ones) leaving you saddled with them alone while she did this, and then regularly took 10% of your community owned income and gave it to such church? Would this cause marital discord? Be grounds for divorce?

(NOTE: I've never had this problem. It's a hypothetical.)

[Mindfulcoug]

Originally Posted by SeattleUte

Would you acquiesce if your spouse started spending 3-4 hours every Sunday at a Church in which you did not believe, taking your kids there for indoctrination or (if you have young ones) leaving you saddled with them alone while she did this, and then regularly took 10% of your community owned income and gave it to such church? Would this cause marital discord? Be grounds for divorce?

(NOTE: I've never had this problem. It's a hypothetical.)

havenot you taken a vow to stand beside her in worst??

[SeattleUte]

Originally Posted by mindfulcoug

havenot you taken a vow to stand beside her in worst??

Clearly Americans don't really believe this. Half of us have been divorced and you can do it without giving an explanation.

[Mindfulcoug]

Originally Posted by SeattleUte

Clearly Americans don't really believe this. Half of us have been divorced and you can do it without giving an explanation.

really? i always have thought this is the best part of your wedding!
since in islam we dont make such a promise officially.

[jay santos]

Originally Posted by mindfulcoug

really? i always have thought this is the best part of your wedding!
since in islam we dont make such a promise officially.

The best part of islam marriage is that you don't have to worry about your husband divorcing you. The worst part is that he cuts off your head if you attempt to convert to another religion, taking your kids to church all day Sunday, and paying 10% of your husband's income for tithing.

[Mindfulcoug]

Originally Posted by jay santos

The best part of islam marriage is that you don't have to worry about your husband divorcing you. The worst part is that he cuts off your head if you attempt to convert to another religion, taking your kids to church all day Sunday, and paying 10% of your husband's income for tithing.

wow!! thanks for enlightening me. Wasn't it you who i met at Heathrow airport wearing burka coming back from pakistan ???

[jay santos]

Originally Posted by mindfulcoug

wow!! thanks of enlightening me ..was not you who i met at Heathrow airport wearing burka coming back from pakistan ???

I'm being facetious, but aren't you being simplistic on how this scenario would play out in an Islam marriage?

Seriously what would a Muslim man do if his wife tried to pull that off?

[Mindfulcoug]

Originally Posted by jay santos

I'm being facetious, but aren't you being simplistic on how this scenario would play out in an Islam marriage?

Seriously what would a Muslim man do if his wife tried to pull that off?

muslim men should marry muslim women ,so if a muslim woman is facing a need in her soul and is seeking for truth in other religions ,then its fine..she could have it ..but some schalors believe that muslim men couldnot continue their marriage with a non-muslim woman. so no cutting head off ,sorry to disappoint you.

[jay santos]

Originally Posted by mindfulcoug

muslim men should marry muslim women ,so if a muslim woman is facing a need in her soul and is seeking for truth in other religions ,then its fine..she could have it ..but some schalors believe that muslim men couldnot continue their marriage with a non-muslim woman. so no cutting head off ,sorry to disappoint you.

So then why the self-righteousness about islam marriage being more permanent?

[Mindfulcoug]

Originally Posted by jay santos

So then why the self-righteousness about islam marriage being more permanent?

would you be more specific about that ?