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Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Rexburg, Idaho
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While they were growing up I would worry about them becoming rebellious and turning to drugs and alcohol but that hasn't happened. My biggest challenge has been lighting a fire under my youngest son's butt. I try to make him realize that school is important, that the harder he works at his sports the more success that will come his way and that a person can't just cruise through life. He's getting tired of hearing this from his dad but it's driving me crazy.
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Not beating the shit out of her.
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Join Date: Aug 2005
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I was a good kid, so I have good karma going for me. A lot of you f-ers on this board were doping spolied ingrates, so we call that around here on planet earth, "bad karma".
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: The Orgasmatron
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Viking has hit the nail on the head.
For my kids, who are basically good kids, lighting a fire under them so that they have enough ambition. They generally succeed, and the boys are more ambitious than the girls, but none of my kids go the extra mile to get better. The only extra miles run, are with me pushing the kid. For example, my son wishes to learn languages, but only when I spoon feed him. I remember taking dictionaries, grammars and others to learn them, because nobody in my family could help me. I built a crude, virtually useless proto computer in the seventies. My kids sit watching mindless tv, or playing X Box. Only when dad gets home and asks about Y, does it get done. So it's almost as if kids have no ambition, no desire. They don't even have the desire to get into trouble, which I experienced quite often.
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Demiurge
Join Date: Aug 2005
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I can't get my son to color. He wants me to color and draw, but he won't.
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Orange County, California
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My 9-yo son's a whiner and sort of weenie-ish. An example: the kids are out playing with water. He squirts our girl (10) with the hose or something and runs away. She gets a bucket and throws water at him, getting his shoes wet. He comes in crying that she got him wet.
We don't coddle him (although my ex-wife did - and she also has a major victim complex, which I'm sure has rubbed off on him), but this is still virtually a daily occurrence. Over and over games that the neighborhood kids are playing end with him running in crying because someone offended him. It's getting pretty old.
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Norcal
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14 year old: Easiest kid in the world. Self-motivated re: academics and to this point has kept his nose clean. Has some potential to rebel without me ever realizing it (he reminds me a lot of myself at his age). Toughest challenge with him is that he constantly riles up/teases the younger kids. At times it's enough that I want to beat him but to this point I've refrained.
6 year old: Drama queen. Very reactionary and oldest brother loves to take advantage of that. 3 year old: Keeping him in the house and out of the street. He's very stealthy and adventurous. 1 year old: Sneaks into our bed every night. Has figured out that if she does so past about 2am mom and dad are too tired to put her back. |
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Charon
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: In the heart of darkness (Provo)
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A couple of years ago I got a phone call from the BYU police dept. My son and his friends had been caught throwing fireworks at EFY attendees from his car (registered to me). My first thought was, "Wow, that sounds exactly like something I would have done at his age." Luckily, I happened to know this particular cop and I talked them into letting them go without arresting them. Two months ago they were busted again for throwing snowballs at amorous couples in parked cars by Rock Canyon. They were charged and had to pay a fine for that one. I chewed him out for being stupid enough to run to his car when being chased.
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Charon
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: In the heart of darkness (Provo)
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Here we go again. Another phone call from the BYU police dept. tonight. Turns out that Junior was driving around campus with his friends with the car alarm on. The cops pulled him over thinking they had stolen the car. They then called me as the registered owner to confirm that the car hadn't been stolen. (Sigh...)
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: In the basement of my house, Murray, Utah.
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My only problem would be when the 13 year old boy tries to test the old man's prowess around the house, but being that I am the Alpha male, I quickly put an end to it. It's good to be King.
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