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Originally Posted by TheSizzle36
I can totally understand your anxiety. I know I would have similar feelings. However, sometimes the biggest rewards in life require the biggest risks. Why not try a week out there and see where it goes. If a spark flies, or if you get along, the week will be well worth it. If nothing happens, there is a lot to do on the east coast and a lot to see. Public transportation (buses, trains, cabs, etc) is a staple of life, and you can get by without renting a car. If you know after a couple of days that you absolutely can't tolerate him, then you can be blunt about it, take off and go your own way. And if things are good, then you win.
I'd probably advise to go for it.
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To go along with Sizzle's advice, if you agree to give it a shot, you're doing so for a December/January time frame. Based on that committment, you then have 3 months or so to get to know this guy long distance (which isn't the same, I know) without some of the pressures and awkwardness that come with the early stages of dating & courtship.
Just something to think about.