View Single Post
Old 12-31-2007, 05:09 PM   #42
Black Diamond Bay
Senior Member
 
Black Diamond Bay's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: California
Posts: 1,000
Black Diamond Bay is an unknown quantity at this point
Send a message via MSN to Black Diamond Bay
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by TripletDaddy View Post
Women who get married younger are not giving up less. They are giving up more. If you dont marry until later in life, you at least get the chance to have a career, travel, get a grad degree, etc.. Women who marry early and dive into kids give all of that up...or, at least, it becomes exponentially more difficult to accomplish.

Some women are fine with their decision to do so. Others consciously do it as a personal sacrifice because they would also love to start their family.
I understand that point of view, but imo it feels like more now than it ever did back then. Now I wouldn't be giving up nebulous possibilities, I'd be giving up what I actually possess. There was much, much less to lose back then. Understandably this doesn't seem to be a problem for a lot of single women I know.
Black Diamond Bay is offline   Reply With Quote