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Originally Posted by Cali Coug
So then why wouldn't you just ask her? Why in the world would you go to a bishop and ask him (and actually assume he would answer even though he promised her confidentiality)? Aren't you: 1) assuming she will lie to you (not a good basis for a relationship), and then assuming that that lie is sufficient to break things off; and 2) hoping the bishop will break his promise to her to keep things confidential (thereby making him a liar)?
How in the world does that make any sense? The guy is a nutcase. Oh, and he thinks he is going to be a GA someday, so he is even crazier than that. He will be one of those guys in 30 years that starts calling himself the prophet and picks up a bunker next to Tex's.
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I think what BDB is saying is very wise. IMO there is a high level of naivete involved in those who are ONLY making this about "sin" and therefore would ignore the situation altogother. Having said that, you are right: him asking the bishop illustrates that this couple will have much bigger problems in their marriage than her past history!