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Originally Posted by DrumNFeather
Here's my question to you.
What difference would it make if you knew?
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That's for each individual to decide, isn't it? You can't decide that for them. Simple as that. And if you choose to decide that for a future spouse by being dishonest in any way, then you are denying the most precious thing you will have in a marriage...honesty and true intimacy. What idiot is going to hold a past history against their girlfriend? Just talk about it, make sure it won't affect the relationship negatively, and move on. It's not that hard. Every couple should do it, IMO. There doesn't have to be guilt or judgment involved. If there is, THEN you have a problem.