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Originally Posted by Black Diamond Bay
I'm sure that's a possible scenario, but would you rather have that happen after the wedding? Might as well be beforehand so you both know what you're getting into. Although if you've dated a guy that does have that past, and a guy that doesn't, there really shouldn't be any need to ask.
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Yes, I see your point and I agree with it to an extent.
However at my age,,,,even in the LDS Culture, it's just not realistic to expect anyone I date to not have any baggage of some kind.
I think anyone going in expecting a person to not have any mistakes in their past is setting ones self up for constant and repeated disapointment.