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Old 07-11-2008, 05:06 AM   #2
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My wife is really worried, but I've taken a very laid back approach. But now that we've hit the downhill approach to 3, I want to be more proactive, or at least just talk to a professional. We haven't taken him to a doctor or anything for his delayed speech. I don't like parental alarmism, and I think kids should be given space and patience to develop, with loving encouragement. But my wife has been chafing at my "I'm not worried" statements, and I am now curious why he may not be talking.

He makes good eye contact, plays well, likes physical affection . . . but he can't say a single word except "yah" and "mo" -- his "yes" and "no." Not a single other word. He won't try to make the sounds when we have worked with him.

Internet tells me there are a host of reasons for delayed speech. We're going to take him to his pediatrician, but have any of you guys or gals had any experience with this?

I'm tired of telling my wife that Einstein didn't talk until he was four.
My daughter was slow walking, otherwise normal. She's been seeing a therapist and is catching up fast.

At 2.5+ you definitely need to take him to a specialist. Not to alarm you. It could well be nothing in the long run. But your son is in the lower percentile in terms of speech and you want to do everything you can for him. Follow your wife's instincts. I'm surprised your pediatrician hasn't recommended it from seeing him in regular check ups.
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