in courting we are advised to truly....
get to know the person we are liking and consider everything in our search for our eternal companion, except for one aspect....
i understand the physical reasons behind the law of chastity, avoiding pregnancy, disease, etc...
but what happens if you marry a girl that doesnt fit you sexually? are you just shout out of luck? can you really get a feel for how you two will react sexually before marriage if certain things arent tested?
like for example, im dating a girl, she says she is ok with oral sex, i say ok as am i, we get married time for that comes for what i am thinking will be oral sex, she tries it, balks, and says never again.
do i just say, ok, well i kinda got screwed on that aspect of the marriage and focus on the other things? is sex not the second major reason behind divorce? how can you get a feel for how your future wife will be in bed, without the feel?
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