I can totally understand your anxiety. I know I would have similar feelings. However, sometimes the biggest rewards in life require the biggest risks. Why not try a week out there and see where it goes. If a spark flies, or if you get along, the week will be well worth it. If nothing happens, there is a lot to do on the east coast and a lot to see. Public transportation (buses, trains, cabs, etc) is a staple of life, and you can get by without renting a car. If you know after a couple of days that you absolutely can't tolerate him, then you can be blunt about it, take off and go your own way. And if things are good, then you win.
I'd probably advise to go for it.
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