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Originally Posted by DrumNFeather
So, by suggesting that it is not a choice, does that mean that if it were a choice most gay men and or women would then choose not to be gay? Just curious.
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The personal accounts I have heard with my own ears--being gay was something they desperately did NOT want to be. And of course I have heard the same sort of accounts in media and press. Honestly, I have never heard an account where someone claimed it was not tremendously difficult and ego-dystonic. That's why I asked you guys for an example. One example. Of course just one example doesn't prove that you "choicers" are correct, but it does add to possibility.