How do you respond to this situation?
When talking to "non-cyber" friends and acquaintances and something comes up that has been discussed on this message board, how do you respond to them?
This actually came up twice recently. I was speaking to someone the other day and found myself caught up in this one. It started out "Oh I have this friend...", and then I backpedalled and changed it to "Actually he's more of an acquainance...". Thinking more on it, it then became "Well I know this guy...", until I realized that I only know of one person on this board that I have actually met. So it has proven to be awkward for me, even if it is only in my head. Can you call someone your buddy/friend/acquaintance when you only correspond through message boards or boardmail? Just wondering how you guys/girls feel about it? |
I once in all seriousness nearly announced to a group of friends that "I know the guy that owns that company" when referring to zephyr hats. That's how demented one can get on these boards.
When speaking to non-board friends about things discussed here, I often find myself saying that I heard "from a friend..." It's the way to escape the embarrasing "how do you know him" question. |
Since I do not have real friends, I often refer to people on these message boards as friends. I guess it does help that I have met a few of them. I've only met a few from this board, but have met several from utefans.net
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I say acquaintance or friend. Maybe society will come up with a new term for these type of cyber relationships. Its kind of like having a community of pen pals.
Has anyone on this board actually met Mike? (Besides Statman) |
Not yet
he keeps riding with those gorgeous gals from the Dallas area leaving no time to spend with cybersports friends.
I have met Il Padrino, Statman and his charming wife, and a few others. BTW, when do your ads come out, Mike is concealing the release, fearing you might get too many suitors. |
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i bet you guys have talked about fusnik to your wives....
i can see the conversation now. you: honey, do you think that lds kids are making out a ton with each other? do you think our daughter will have kissed a lot of boys before she makes it to college? your wife: why does my servant ask such questions? you: well this guy i know, he says he makes out with a ton of hot chicks. just wondering if you think its true, says he went on a mission as well and is a current recommend holder. your wife: why does your fake friend have to do with me? please finish cleaning the garage and stop pretending like you have friends that i havent pre-approved... |
my wife knows not what I do
all she says, "why do you guys sit around complaining how badly BYU is playing, and why not just enjoy the games?"
She'll never understand. |
My wife saw Archaea's avatar the other day. She said, "Now I know why you hang out online all the time."
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Yeah
that avatar is the most action some of us get in a long time.
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To paraphrase Bill Shakespeare..
"A friend by and other name is a friend."
Or something like that. I usually refer to folks from the boards as friends, as I see no reason to not consider them friends. As Archaea mentioned, we've met each other and I've met a few others such as mpfunk, but I get the feeling that because our personalities are pretty much online what they are in real life, I know most here who post. |
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