By your fruits ye shall know them. Asshole isn't a strong enough word. Still, I think the excommunicated dude should just take his family and be on his way. Hopefully his wife has more love for him than the Stake President and voluntarily leaves the church.

Dang, I don't know how I missed another post psychoanalyzing me.

Nice one, Napper. Never ceases to amaze me how total strangers who only know me through a few thousands posts on the internet can have the arrogance to think they know my mind.

Maybe I should give this psychoanalyzing thing a try sometime.