Based on what you are saying this appears to be the case. If you would like to give more information to rebut this notion that would be fine. However, what I see is someone who is blaming struggles on what her husband did in the past. A think a person who is truly forgiving would forget what happened in the past, and wouldn't use it as a basis for why their are current problems (assuming the past transgression was taken care of).

I do enjoy one thing about your post. You say it shows a lot about my character for making a judgment of a little snippet of information on someone I don't know and haven't met, than you go ahead and make a judgment on my character based on the little bit of information that you know about me, a person you don't know and haven't met.

...and what judgment was that?

I'm still entirely uncertain why her husband has anything to do with this. The individual in question that started the conversation in the first place is a man that she met and dated several years ago, and now he's asking me out. There's been nothing in any of the comments she's made that would lead me to believe that she hasn't forgiven her husband, and doesn't consider him to be someone who keeps his covenants. However, she has reservations about the man in question.

You know, Funk...it just dawned on me that your avatar is missing a pie portion for a rabbit in a hat and a baseball bat.

What a shocker....BDB now ripping into someone else for offering their take on the subject of the thread.

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Is this an example of the alleged personal attacks? Maybe evidence that I can't take what I dish out?

...my unwillingness to sit back and let someone rip on a friend is an exhibit of exactly what?

I don't know about you, but that sure looks like a judgment.

That is a huge oversight you are correct. I didn't make the pie chart so it is not my fault.

Well then it shouldn't be difficult for you to tell us all what judgment was made against you.

Whether you can or can't take what you dish it out isn't the issue here, but since you asked..... if it were, it's a question that was already answered about you a looooooooooooooong time ago, but I digress.

I'm sure your friend will be happy to know you're fiercely loyal to her cause.

Perhaps you need to go back and reread what I posted more carefully. I asked if this is evidence to support your allegations that I can't take what I dish out. I did NOT ask whether or not I can.

This is very interesting. You continue to throw out this claim, without ever producing any evidence to support the claim. Repeating yourself over and over again doesn't do anything to validate baseless claims. Surely you realize that...


Well she knows me well enough that it wouldn't come as any kind of a surprise. Although, she doesn't frequent these boards and therefore it's highly unlikely that she will ever read this.